Sunday, May 9, 2010

Whatever happens life has to go on……..

Whatever happens life has to go on……..
This has become one of the most used phrases now days when facing a tough situation. People take advantage of this phrase to shield their cowardice in facing the situations. One has to atleast give a try to break the shackles and change the situation and make it desirable. Life offers us everything but most of us are afraid to take risk and try beyond the safe zone. Nothing is impossible if we are ready to give our best to get what we want.
It is true that we have to adapt ourselves to face tough situations and get along with that, but that does not give us the liberty to surrender our wishes and desires. If we need something and there are many challenges before us, then we have to learn to face those difficulties and find a way to overcome the difficulties.
Most times in relationships people tend to use this phrase to hide their inability. They find it as the safest answer to escape from complexity of the issue. If we lead a life of unfulfilled desires then it means we have not tried enough to get the wish fulfilled. We always used to think only about the present or the near future so we tend to be happy with what we have got. But as life goes on and we don’t get what we want then life becomes misery. Life is about enjoying the moment we live and making most out of it. This can be achieved only if we have the will to fight for what we want. There are many people in the world who have struggled hard and faced many tough situations and have come out with flying colors. If they would have thought ‘ whatever happens life has to go on ‘ and if they have remained the way they were living then they would not have seen their dreams come true.
Life is all about individuals. Every individual is the architect of his own life. We must not allow others to influence our life even if it were our close relations. Because at the end of the day it is we, who have the aspirations and longing for things. We can’t let others to decide on our life. We have every right to be happy.
We should develop the tendency to fight for our rights. We should not let things go just like that without giving a fight. Especially in relationships we must not lose the person who is special to us, even if we have to take the toughest decision of our life. Because we can regain most things in our lives if we lose it once but it’s not possible to regain a person once if we lose them. We can’t sit back in a relaxed manner and say “Whatever happens life has to go on……..” without battling out to hold on to that special person in our life. Times spend with special person makes that moment very special and a lifetime means a very special life. So never let relationships fall out by saying whatever happens life has to go on………Fight hard to retain the relationships and live happily.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Instead of analyzing this phrase in a negative sense, analyse it in a positive way. You will be able to discover another meaning of it.... I think it as one of the positive phrase to cheer myself when I think the whole world is dark... Every-time when I think am failed, I tell myself no its not, "Life has to go on" try it again don't get discouraged, you can do better...

Anonymous said...

Yeah it means.. Whatever good or bad happened, it's not an end still you can see your life be going on. So if some bad happens just think its not an end of anything be positive and move forward. If some good happened to be grateful and be humble because this not a final judgement its just a part of life, and it will go off.